Money keeps disappearing from our accounts

Money disappearing from shared accounts represents one of addiction's most immediate threats to family stability. Whether through secret withdrawals, hidden purchases, or financial manipulation, your financial security becomes constantly at risk.

Immediate financial protection steps:

• Separate all shared accounts and credit cards immediately
• Change passwords and PINs on all financial accounts
• Set up account alerts for any transactions over a specific amount
• Remove their access to joint credit cards and lines of credit
• Secure important financial documents in a safe location

Long-term financial safety planning:

• Open individual accounts they cannot access
• Build an emergency fund in your name only
• Monitor credit reports for unauthorized accounts or loans
• Consider freezing your credit if identity theft is a concern
• Document all financial losses for potential legal action

1. Act immediately - every day of delay risks more financial loss

1. Contact all financial institutions to remove their access and explain the situation

1. Change all passwords and set up two-factor authentication where possible

1. Create a detailed record of all money that has disappeared with dates and amounts

1. Establish new financial boundaries: "I will control our family finances until you're in sustained recovery"

Intense anger and accusations when financial access is removed - this threatens addiction's survival. They may create emergencies or use emotional manipulation to regain access to money. Financial boundaries often motivate treatment consideration because addiction becomes unsustainable without funding.

East Point Behavioral Health: (855) 887-6237 - Family financial counseling and addiction support

Financial Advisors: Specializing in addiction-affected families for long-term planning

Legal Consultation: If significant theft has occurred or legal protection is needed